How many times have you been out with your kids for the day only to find that they've managed to fill their pockets and yours with special rocks, flowers, sticks, and, my personal favorite: dead bugs! Almost every child in every culture goes through (or maintains) a phase in which he loves to put objects in and out of containers and, better yet, move those contained objects around. Although it can seem a little silly and even tiresome to us, the desire to find, collect and cart treasure from one place to another is a universal pattern in kids' behavior and, it turns out, brain development.
We also know that kids need to learn not to remove objects from our most treasured landscape, so we need to honor their drive to collect but also help them build a practice of leaving no trace. And it is possible to walk that line. You just need the right tool and habits. So, we've found that making a "bindle" (i.e. a sack on a stick you know from cartoons) is a great way to harness kids' drive to amass goodies while also making kids independent and freeing us of unwanted guests in our pockets. Take the bindle with you or keep it in the bottom of your pack or stroller, just get a new stick every time. Give kids the chance to notice the amazing variety of things that fall, drop, sprout and blossom at different times and in different places. This way to cart goodies around will be all the rage with your kids.
Once kids make a bindle, you have a super portable tool to use to gather materials for making an endless number of things. Decorating, tying, filling and keeping a bindle sack on a stick all help to develop coordination and fine motor skills. When kids are able to make their own tool out of simple materials, they become master of their own collections and, in turn, develop self reliance. This one also hits several behavioral schema. Filling up the sack and carting things around is the perfect activity to support kids as they develop a brain and body via the transporting schema, while tucking objects into a sack also exercises the enveloping schema. This kind of activity also tends to get kids excited to get out on a hike and can even help keep them happy longer on the trail. Perhaps most importantly, kids today are not taught to respect green spaces. Many of the behaviors kids see regularly, from litter to more broad misuse of the environment, teach bad habits in a subtle but consistent way. And, research has shown, that younger generations spend less time and have less regard for natural spaces. If we both acknowledge and welcome their innate desire to gather, stoke their curiosity and love for these objects but also teach them to put the objects back as part of tending to and treasuring our green spaces, we'll go far to developing the environmental stewards of the future.